Wedding Vows Create Key Memories

was thinking this morning, as I sipped my second cup of cold coffee, about wedding or marriage vows and how the subconscious mind works.

For most people, unless they have studied metaphysics or mental science or some such discipline, the concept of a subconscious or unconscious mind is vague at best.

Here is what came out of those cold cups of coffee, cold because of all the thinking that was going on in between sips.

And even though it was ‘hot' thinking I haven't yet learned how to motivate molecules to physically change form: like heating up coffee or bending spoons.

Well, anyway, the thought that came to me was the concept of memories.

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Why?

Because everything we think, do, or are has to do with memories. Memories that have been encoded into our cells.

Even the way our bodies function is as a result of memory; most of those functions we inherited from before we were born, way back to some universal idea of humans as we developed over time. We can call them DNA or genetics but when it comes right down to it those are all encoded memories.

On some level all our experiences are turned to memories that hang around in our personal physical and mental data bank. Every minute we are comparing what we are hearing, seeing, feeling, etc. with the information in that data bank.

Based on what we find that matches the memories we have, or doesn't match anything, our ‘subconscious' is giving us directions on what to do, what to say, what to think, where to go, and how to do it. Or how not to do or say or go or be.

That's what I call default thinking.

If we want our lives to be any different than they are we must change the energy or vibration of the memories. We must consciously choose or decide on the type of memories we want to store up in our data bank. And then go about experiencing them so we can add to the 'frame of reference.'

The idea of choosing to create memories seems a lot easier to me than trying to change our minds or our thinking.

Ask yourself:

"How do I want my life to be? What does it look like, feel like, taste like, smell look like?" Then create experiences that add new memories to the data bank. When there are more memories that match what you want, that becomes the dominant force factor, or attracting factor.

I am calling them ‘key' memories.

The idea of search, find, and show up works much like search engines. The more key words you have in your web site the more likely it is that the search engines will choose your web site to show up early in the search results.

Keep adding key memories. Those key memories have a dominant feeling, shape, color, sound, etc.

Create your vision and then keep adding ‘key' memories until you have more matches that support your dreams than ones that resist or even negate them.

Writing wedding vows from the conscious creation of a vision and dream that has power, passion and purpose behind them is like storing up key memories before they are actually experienced.

Because the subconscious, or your memories, doesn't know the difference between what is real and what is imagined.

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Love, light and laughter,
Rev. Linda, The Wedding Vow Coach