Writing Wedding Vows-Liberate Your Possibilities

Do you have any idea of the possibilities that you will liberate and set free when you write your own wedding or commitment vows and do it with passion, power and purpose?

Writing your own personal vows gives you the opportunity of a lifetime to create a blueprint, a vision, a dream, of the life that you have for yourself and for your marriage or partnership.

That possibility and potential exists because, when you have talked intimately and purposefully about your life together, you create a powerful pull that acts like a magnet and begins to draw to you everything you would ever need to live the life of your dreams. This includes the people, things, opportunities, experiences, and money!

That pull is compounded, multiplied and exponentially increased by all the activity around you.

That means that all the factors that go into your wedding, the time and emotion around the planning–the caterer, the cake maker, the wedding clothes people, your friends and family, your wedding vows, etc.–all combine to create an energy that is unlike anything that will ever come around again in your lifetime. It’s as though the whole world is on your side.

Everyone wants you to succeed:

They are putting out positive thoughts. (That’s a tsunami of good will, energy and motion.)

They are helping you to dream a big dream.

They want to be part of your success.

(That energetic time exists every time you get married but decreases with each subsequent event. I want you to take advantage of that energy no matter whether this is your first, your second or your third event.)

That creative energy is out in front of you already going to work on your behalf.

Trust me on that. If you step into that flow and consciously stay in it, you can create miracles, intimacy, beauty and purpose that will keep your marriage and partnership intimate and alive.

I want you to create a powerful river of energy so strong by writing your own wedding or commitment vows that you will be carried along in it easily.

OK, I’m going to keep saying this over and over and over and over until you get it:

Write your wedding or commitment vows TOGETHER after you have talked about the dream you have for your life together and written it down.

Your vows are the promises you make to each other telling each other just what you will do to ‘keep the dream alive.’

Get that river flowing.

You do that by imagining and talking about how your life will look like in 1 year, 5 years, 10 years.

Find every opportunity to incorporate elements.

If you have any problems with getting to the emotions, the colors, the excitement of what you are trying to imagine, find a picture in a magazine that you are attracted to and discuss what it is about that picture that makes you come alive and excites you. Write it down.

I do not want to lie to you and say that you will never have any situations in your life that need attention.

What I am saying is that if the river of your marriage and partnership is flowing fast and strong enough your relationship will flow easily around those rocks, slowing down only enough for you to look at and attend to the situation. Then it will pick up speed and get going again.

A stream or river that doesn’t flow very fast stops or circles around the rocks and sometimes there is as much current going backward as forward.

I want you to have the best chance in the entire world . . . in the entire universe.

Because the entire world and universe in on your side. When you realize that you consciously take steps to keep it that way.

Write your own personal wedding or commitment vows.

Talk about the dream you have for your life together and get passionate about it!

Share that dream with others at your wedding or ceremony by reciting and pledging your vows.

Then keep that dream alive.

Your job is to keep enough water in the river, get it moving with passion, power and possibilities, then let it flow all by itself.

Get a dream and swim in it . . .

. . . splash in it,

. . . float in it,

. . . find new ways to play in it!

You can download your totally FREE copy of the 10 Commandments of Marriage as my gift to you. I recently redid it with graphics so it is a beautiful document that you can frame. You can download it FREE here. Pass it on!

Love, light and laughter,

Rev. Linda, The Wedding Vow Coach

Helping couples to write down the dream and then live it.

I have an unusual and innovative and totally revolutionary philosophy and method and of writing wedding vows that create powerful marriages and partnerships and keep then going and going and going. www.WeddingVowsandCeremonies.com

Love Ya!